Discussion of Marriage, poly rel, in Battlestar

So here's the thing: I'm writing a Kara/Sam/Lee triad marriage/relationship epic. (based on This bit of porn . And I'm trying to do it the bsg-way - or how it might have gone in canon.

And since I didn't actually ever watch Caprica, I have a few questions relating in a general way for flisters who watched it. Plus some bsg discussion.

ON MAWWIAGE ..

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U HAZ THOUGHTS?

And also, I now seem to be in need of a K/S/L icon. Anyone?