I think part of it comes down to the difference between insecure and unsettled. Even while he's struggling with who he is and everything around him keeps changing, there's a part of him that manages to depend only on who he is and what he can do. And while he wants Kara in his life, he doesn't need her to be his foundation. To me that's not an insecure person. Someone insecure would cling to her (or who/whatever else) rather than take the time to adjust and learn what all the changes mean for him.
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Date: 2012-04-24 01:14 am (UTC)